Just Ask Shaun…

I would like to start off by saying I am a first time blogger but I intend to have fun with this experience!

I will just go by Shaun, I am from Wilmington, NC I am 27 years old and I have one big problem, the lack of communication in our lives. Everybody's talking and nobody's listening. You cannot EFFECTIVELY communicate if you are doing all of the talking, and you cannot understand something if you don't ask questions

I have noticed a lot of the issues in my life came from a breakdown in communication; whether it was in my marriage, in tasks that I was taking on, or in my childhood setting with my mother. So I decided to bridge the gap of bad communication, which is why I'm creating this blog, sometimes I found it easier to talk to an unbiased source to be sure that I was taking the right approach to an issue before I tackled it head-on.

So I'm giving you an opportunity to bring whatever issues, concerns, or just plain old questions to me for an open discussion. Like I said in my profile I am an Assistant Pastor, a mother, a CNA, a Med Tech, a Cosmetologist, in addition to being a writer, a poet, and an advocate for our youth through a program called "Devoted". I strongly believe that anything your mind can think of you can achieve. I came from a family that was raised in the projects; I am also the product of a broken home, child abuse, domestic abuse, so you can understand that the statistics weren't favorable for me. In spite of all of the obstacles and circumstances, I made it!!! I am still standing and so can you, so if you want to find out the answers to your burning questions or need help resolving a conflict I'm your girl.... Just Ask Shaun!!